1. Have a GOAL in Life
Nothing happens without a cause. If you decide to live your life aimlessly and leave everything to fate, your development and progress will be determined by luck. The disappointing truth is that luck rarely happens. Even if you are at the bottom, don’t fail to dream high. When you can see opportunity, opportunity would seek for you. Don’t give up on setting your dreams and goals in life. Having an aim in life gives you natural motivation everyday. It gives you the energy to wake up every single morning and look forward to life. It creates a form of positive affirmation towards life and it will eventually have an impact on your personality. You would automatically get a sort of charisma from your own personal motivation!
2. Be willing to get KNOWLEDGE
The way of success is the continual pursuit of knowledge. It could be acquired through your education or the specialized skills you learnt from trainings. Knowledge in education is only potential power unless you can intelligently apply them in your life or work. No wise man would want to befriend a fool if they have a choice! If you do not know what is going on around the world, you’re only going to be left out in conversations. Not only must you have general knowledge but you also got to be great in your specializations at work or school. Frequently update yourself with the latest news from: i) Informative TV programs ii) Online newspapers iii) Communications with people who are intellectual iv) Books, Articles etc. Sharing knowledge with people gives you the ability to easily connect with people and have an influence over them.
3. Carry yourself with CONFIDENCE
Have you noticed that you are naturally attracted to people who are radiant and full of poise? A person with confidence will draw the people around him sub-consciously like a magnet. Even if you are facing tough adversities in life, you must also learn to take things in a positive manner. Don’t slouch when you walk, it is very obvious to people when they looked at it. When you are making handshakes with people, do it firmly. Eye-contacts are an extremely important tool for you when communicating with people. Not only it shows that you are confident of yourself but you are confident of who you are looking at. It gives a form of respect to the other party and also shows your sincerity when communicating with him. Don’t always speak with conviction too. All these little gestures I mentioned earlier will show whether you are a confident person or not. A confident person shows no sign of insecurities within him. Any man or women would want a confident partner and that is especially true for women when it comes to dating! Remember, your confidence can even overcome all the toughest moments in life - The stage fright moments when giving a speech and the interview for your job.
4. Communicate with ENERGY
Many successful people have a very different style when they communicate with others. They speak in a clear tone and in a forceful manner. Be cautious over the command of your language when you talk. Making grammar errors when you speak will only reflect badly upon yourself. Take note on your pronunciation too. Be excited in the ideas you are trying to bring across to an other. The other party will also feel the excitement and willing to hear more from you. It makes you an exciting person to be with. Communicating with en ergy is an important trait of a dynamic personality.
5. Have a good sense in DRESSING
A person who has a good sense in dressing and dresses smartly is pleasing to look at. If you observe carefully to all successful people in any area, entertainment, business, arts etc, you would have noticed that these people dresses well too! It gives the person confidence and relaxes his mind. It gives an aura of a pleasing personality to the people around him. There would be a cheerful look on his face and elegance in his movements No body would want to employ a person who is sloppy in dressing for interview.
6. Stay HEALTHY
A terminally ill person could receive huge amount of attention from people around him. However, the attention is short-lived and it is out of pity from people. To stay healthy gives you a smart look on your face and it is even more attractive to others. With discipline and determination, one can improve his health. Work-out regularly; take a stroll in the park in the mornings – whatever you are more comfortable with. Have more fruits and vegetables in your meals. Drink plenty of water and have sufficient sleep. A healthy body is also one of the ways to boost brainpower, gives you a good facial complexion, provides immunity against diseases and most importantly, gives you the energy necessary for a dynamic personality.
7. Develop good HABITS
People often over-looked certain negative habits which they possessed. They may feel that it is just an insignificant part of them that others would bother. However, the little habits that they have actually reflect upon their personality! You can also tell whether a person is meticulous from his habits. A lazy person will usually give himself away from his lazy habits. It’ll form a bad impression on others. Stay clean, tidy and be punctual for appointments. Honor your promises; be sincere in your work and quit taking excessive alcohols or cigarettes. These habits will add sparkle and dynamism to your personality. Give people the friendliness and politeness within you. Remember that you have to keep your cool in all situations; only the fools will lose their composure and worsen the situation. Be humble and give in to the other party if you need to. Nobody would want to be with people who are proud and think highly of themselves. If you feel that people around you are avoiding you, it is time that you should do something and improve on your behavior. To have a dynamic personality, people must feel comfortable around you.
Nothing happens without a cause. If you decide to live your life aimlessly and leave everything to fate, your development and progress will be determined by luck. The disappointing truth is that luck rarely happens. Even if you are at the bottom, don’t fail to dream high. When you can see opportunity, opportunity would seek for you. Don’t give up on setting your dreams and goals in life. Having an aim in life gives you natural motivation everyday. It gives you the energy to wake up every single morning and look forward to life. It creates a form of positive affirmation towards life and it will eventually have an impact on your personality. You would automatically get a sort of charisma from your own personal motivation!
2. Be willing to get KNOWLEDGE
The way of success is the continual pursuit of knowledge. It could be acquired through your education or the specialized skills you learnt from trainings. Knowledge in education is only potential power unless you can intelligently apply them in your life or work. No wise man would want to befriend a fool if they have a choice! If you do not know what is going on around the world, you’re only going to be left out in conversations. Not only must you have general knowledge but you also got to be great in your specializations at work or school. Frequently update yourself with the latest news from: i) Informative TV programs ii) Online newspapers iii) Communications with people who are intellectual iv) Books, Articles etc. Sharing knowledge with people gives you the ability to easily connect with people and have an influence over them.
3. Carry yourself with CONFIDENCE
Have you noticed that you are naturally attracted to people who are radiant and full of poise? A person with confidence will draw the people around him sub-consciously like a magnet. Even if you are facing tough adversities in life, you must also learn to take things in a positive manner. Don’t slouch when you walk, it is very obvious to people when they looked at it. When you are making handshakes with people, do it firmly. Eye-contacts are an extremely important tool for you when communicating with people. Not only it shows that you are confident of yourself but you are confident of who you are looking at. It gives a form of respect to the other party and also shows your sincerity when communicating with him. Don’t always speak with conviction too. All these little gestures I mentioned earlier will show whether you are a confident person or not. A confident person shows no sign of insecurities within him. Any man or women would want a confident partner and that is especially true for women when it comes to dating! Remember, your confidence can even overcome all the toughest moments in life - The stage fright moments when giving a speech and the interview for your job.
4. Communicate with ENERGY
Many successful people have a very different style when they communicate with others. They speak in a clear tone and in a forceful manner. Be cautious over the command of your language when you talk. Making grammar errors when you speak will only reflect badly upon yourself. Take note on your pronunciation too. Be excited in the ideas you are trying to bring across to an other. The other party will also feel the excitement and willing to hear more from you. It makes you an exciting person to be with. Communicating with en ergy is an important trait of a dynamic personality.
5. Have a good sense in DRESSING
A person who has a good sense in dressing and dresses smartly is pleasing to look at. If you observe carefully to all successful people in any area, entertainment, business, arts etc, you would have noticed that these people dresses well too! It gives the person confidence and relaxes his mind. It gives an aura of a pleasing personality to the people around him. There would be a cheerful look on his face and elegance in his movements No body would want to employ a person who is sloppy in dressing for interview.
6. Stay HEALTHY
A terminally ill person could receive huge amount of attention from people around him. However, the attention is short-lived and it is out of pity from people. To stay healthy gives you a smart look on your face and it is even more attractive to others. With discipline and determination, one can improve his health. Work-out regularly; take a stroll in the park in the mornings – whatever you are more comfortable with. Have more fruits and vegetables in your meals. Drink plenty of water and have sufficient sleep. A healthy body is also one of the ways to boost brainpower, gives you a good facial complexion, provides immunity against diseases and most importantly, gives you the energy necessary for a dynamic personality.
7. Develop good HABITS
People often over-looked certain negative habits which they possessed. They may feel that it is just an insignificant part of them that others would bother. However, the little habits that they have actually reflect upon their personality! You can also tell whether a person is meticulous from his habits. A lazy person will usually give himself away from his lazy habits. It’ll form a bad impression on others. Stay clean, tidy and be punctual for appointments. Honor your promises; be sincere in your work and quit taking excessive alcohols or cigarettes. These habits will add sparkle and dynamism to your personality. Give people the friendliness and politeness within you. Remember that you have to keep your cool in all situations; only the fools will lose their composure and worsen the situation. Be humble and give in to the other party if you need to. Nobody would want to be with people who are proud and think highly of themselves. If you feel that people around you are avoiding you, it is time that you should do something and improve on your behavior. To have a dynamic personality, people must feel comfortable around you.
By : Dr Anaam
